Here's something I noticed inside the Disney Experience: every cast member will call your girl, "Princess."
"Good morning, princess!" "Are you going ashore, princess?" "Have a magical day, princess!"
It is part of the script. And there's really nothing you can do about it.
Of course, using the money you save by staying at Disney's Trailer Park resort to take your kids out at 8AM in a stretch limo for matching glitter puffball princess makeovers is entirely up to you. Or your Designing Women wife, as I think was the case here.