Molly Caro May has a great essay about her and her BF/husband Chris Kautz's decision to give their first kid her last name, and his as a middle name. It's a thoughtful look at how equity and patriarchy and awareness and sensitivity play out in some of our most underexamined assumptions and traditions.
Kudos to May and Kautz for their inspiring decision.
What Happened When We Gave Our Daughter My Last Name [thehairpin]