Well, it's taken her a few years, but NY Times writer Lisa Belkin is apparently getting on board with the reality that men are somehow involved in many work-family balance situations.
She has a short [for her, 1400 words] but informative article on how dads manage going back to work after taking time off to care for the kids. The three big pieces of advice I see:
Why Dad’s Résumé Lists ‘Car Pool’ [nyt]
Related, plus other Belkin stories: Insanely long article on shared parenting